Prior to announcing their divorce, Cavallari and Cutler had been discussing a split for some time, according to insiders.
"They have had divorce talks back and forth for a while," a source previously told PEOPLE. "They didn't want to get a divorce, because of the kids. Kristin has been very torn about it. When she realized that it just wasn't possible for them to stay married, her focus was on keeping things amicable."
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